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What's the most common problem in a relationship?

“I’m right-You’re wrong’. In this all too common situation, both partners are convinced they are right. Both refuse to budge. Neither feels heard. Both feel hurt. It’s a continuing stalemate that effectively destroys love. The solution? Shut up and listen! But you say if I shut up then he/she’ll have won! What about my needs! Possibly the hardest thing for couples to learn is that if you want to be a winner, then that means making your partner a loser. If you want to be a winner, go and play a sport. If you want to have a loving relationship, then you’ll have to give up the need to be ‘right’. Listening however doesn’t mean remaining silent. Why listening is important Listening is

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